I’m seriously considering a name change, both first and last name. But I thought about it and I don’t want to deal with the massive paperwork issues, especially when it comes to citizenship papers and fact that I got citizenship status derived from my mother’s naturalization. I’m not sure if a name change would cause troubles.

Should I do it just for spite?

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      8 months ago

      Why punish yourself by not allowing yourself to have a family to attempt to hurt your father? Why not change your name is make sure your family ends the toxicity :)

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          8 months ago

          Didn’t think of it that way. Yeah, you definitely don’t want to pass that on. I hope your family is happy then :)