Websockets are often used for quality of life features like notifications and websites that are dynamic without needing to be refreshed. Almost went website with any kind of chat will use WS for example. Turning it off will make web browsing a little more annoying.

However websockets are also sometimes used for anti-fraud related software that can also leak information you may deem private. Disabling websockets might prevent that data from getting out but of course all this depends on your threat model.

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Ctrl+Shift+V in KeePassXC should autotype username and password in another window, but I believe is still broken out of the box on Wayland.

There may be some workaround that I haven’t tried yet.

Always liked the melody to this 王七七Wang QiQi song:

https://youtu.be/8VzNV0YDhuA

The whole lemmynsfw instance. Don’t need that distraction here.

Text filters - any keywords for news topics that I’ve had enough of (mostly reoccurring political topics)

Weird meme shit from some strange community (or something that is just not my generation) - block the whole community.

A poster who’s engaging in bad faith - blocked, never to be heard from again.

I also set my mobile client (Connect) to mark posts that I’ve scrolled by as read, and to only show unread posts.

I filter by All / Top 6 hours

My experience on Lemmy is getting better and better, and I feel no need to doom scroll here.

If only it were still easy to participate in society without doing business with some of the bigger ones

Love to see so much support here in asklemmy. This community is really great.

I went through divorce at the age of 27 and is one of the hardest things I’ve ever experienced. It is a lot like a death. Obviously not of a person but a dream and perhaps an identity. It’s the type of thing that can feel like a personal failure and really leave you feeling hopeless and in despair.

In the first months I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect that the feelings will just go away or even lose their potency, and they can be extremely powerful. Perhaps they just become muted more and more as time passes and you fill your life with other people and activities. Hell, to this day (now I’m 45) I still think about her occasionally and wish it could have been a different outcome, but so much of my life since that time never could have occurred had I stuck with her. In other words I’ve come to learn that while I’m grateful for the good times we had, I’m also grateful that it ended and I too could move on.

The most important thing you have to do now is find out who you are as a single man - and as a human - by nurturing and taking care of this new found sense of loneliness. Find your new identity. I think you really have to lean into the pain you’re feeling and express it deliberately. Let it move and let it get out of you.

It especially helps to fill your time with activities you love that also nurture you. Maybe that’s being outdoors, maybe that’s gaming, whatever it is you know it better than anybody.

We really need healthy people around to support us during this kind of time and it’s a shame that the people you thought would be there aren’t. Maybe they can still be your buddies but now you know they’re not the type to really have your back when the shit hits the fan. But those kind of people are out there and now it’s your mission to go figure out where they are.

I’m selfhosting it on box next to me. Wasn’t so hard for me to find the GitHub link on their website.

They have a SaaS option as well, I’m guessing that’s the main revenue plan.

Huly is pretty amazing and has a self host option. It supports chats and video calls, team rooms, and has some cool integration for speech to text note taking. It also functions as a task tracker.

Under super active development right now so host only if you can deal with occasional breaking changes.

Hey that’s awesome! thank you for the share. Planning to install proxmox this weekend and give it a try.

Dammit noooo there can only be one

My dad was all about this for a while, including convincing my siblings and a few of his siblings to get the report.

I guess that means I’m somehow linked in to this if I ever happen to leave my DNA laying around in the wrong place.

He’s awfully quiet about it now though.

Having electric stability issues this week in Bangkok - several 2-3 hour outages, which are too long for a UPS to cover the gap. I have several mid range but older PCs running docker, virtualbox, etc for various things including a postfix server for the family email, immich, QBittorrent, pihole, paperless, huly, postiz, a Minecraft bedrock server, a flightradar24 ads-b collector, and a variety of other homegrown projects.

Thinking about getting some or most of this over to a service like hetzner, perhaps even splurging on a baremetal dedicated system.

Recently I’ve been reading about/trying to learn qemu and proxmox, but don’t understand them yet. Is that where it’s at for managing a bunch of your own VMs? Or kubernetes/k8s?

I’ve been a little out of the loop for a few years and of course coming back up to speed IT wise judge take weeks. Looking for recommendations on offloading my home stuff to a cloud that I control.

Is it possible to use a voip based SMS for registration?

Those are a little easier to get anonymously then physical sim cards.

Here’s another take. I think some people would never act cruel towards their equal yet they can easily act cruel if they believe another human to be someone less than their equal.

This is why during war times it is common to develop nasty names and personas of the individual enemies.