You can do both. Source: my weirdo daughter.

Conservatives have nothing real to rage about. Everything theyre mad about is only because they’ve been told to be mad about it by conservative media, who is telling them to be mad about it to politically control them.

My ex would bitch at me and start shit, then accuse me of gaslighting her if i tried to de-escalate or defend myself.

Good riddance. I hate when people use the term for trivial shit now.