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Cake day: June 2nd, 2023

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  • The question reminds me of this:

    Ross: Why are you mad at me?

    Phoebe: You said I was boring

    Ross: When did I say you were boring?!

    Phoebe: Oh my God, I remember now! We were playing chess!

    Ross: Phoebe! You and I have never played chess!

    Phoebe: Oh, come on! Yes, remember that time on the frozen lake? We were playing chess, you said I was boring, and then you took off your energy mask and you were Cameron Diaz! Okay, there’s a chance this may have been a dream.


  • I think it’s reasonable to respond with something like “I’m really not a kid person, I don’t much enjoy talking about kids or being around kids. I’m still happy to meet for coffee, but maybe we plan to keep it a short chat and see how it goes?”

    They’re mostly just going to be the focus of the occasion because they need constant attention, and I don’t really like kids in general. And, if they cry or act up and attract attention I will hate that.

    Many places will have toy areas for kids, maybe you can find one (or ask if they can suggest one since they are more likely to know which ones nearby have that). A 2 year old can probably keep themselves mostly entertained off and on for 30 mins or an hour, depending on the specific kid and if there are a good selection of toys. The 6 month old will need more attention but may well spend a lot of the time sleeping.

    An old friend/aquaintance I’ve not spoken to in a few years popped up recently and we got chatting a little over text.

    I don’t want to put you off, but I’d probably have a plan for what you’re going to do if they start a MLM pitch.

















  • Cheers for that. Many of these issues allow an authenticated user to do admin actions if they do the right things, so it seems you should never allow a user that you don’t fully trust to have an account.

    But outside of this, there isn’t anything in there that on its own worries me given the nature of the platform (that is, that if it all burnt down I could retrieve all data from other sources). I’m no expert but a cursory look shows a bunch of potential issues that may be layered with other issues but no clear attack path except with prior knowledge.

    These should obviously be fixed but there’s nothing that makes me want to rip my server off the open internet in a hurry.